Most people are participating in their own unhappiness. Think about it. You still have phone numbers of people who never call or don't call enough to matter, and when you go through your contacts and realize they haven't called, that they never call, you feel a way, but you're participating in your pain 'cause you kept the numbers. Think about it. you got all these bills, all this debt 'cause somebody said this is what counts, buy this, this is what the important people wear,drive,do, so you wear,drive, do it at any cost. Or you just can't break up with "Get More" a doomed relationship from the start. When the Bills come, you feel a way, but you're participating in your pain 'cause you still keep wearing, driving, doin', and lovin' Get More . When people speed pass me on the highway, crazy sometimes, cutting me off sometimes, i feel an urge to drive fast too, even if I'm in no hurry, I'll show them. Then i tell myself "I'm not participating" let them go 'head. It keeps me from being pulled off course into someone else's flow, out of myself, off my square, stressed and unhappy. Don't participate in your own unhappiness, let go of whatever's not working, tell somebody "Go 'head" today. Take care of yourself, keep your Flow, life is not suppose to hurt and when it does, makes sure you're not participating in creating the pain. We can change this world and change ourselves if we just stop participating in what makes us unhappy...