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<dc:creator>Vanessa Howard</dc:creator>
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<title>The Humanity of Human interaction</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded>&lt;![CDATA[ &lt;p&gt;People are forgetting what&#39;s important, before all this technology you had to write a letter, call, hope they pick up, &#39;cause you couldn&#39;t leave a message, or get up, get dress go over to see them and talk it out. Now there&#39;s 50 ways to argue, people callin&#39;, leavin&#39; messages, textin&#39;, postin&#39; on the internet, twisted on twitter,got your ipad, and ipod and i&#39;m gonna git u sucker dumb smartphone. Before all this technology you had to sit down and think, think about what&#39;s important, about what matters, about what you gonna say and do, alot of relationships were saved because somebody didn&#39;t get through, hung the phone up or didn&#39;t finish that train ride. Why? Because in the process you had time, Time to think, like what&#39;s gonna happen if i say this, do this? do i really mean it, what part did i play?, am i really finished? Technology kills process and process is part of GOD&#39;s design. Process is the time it takes for an emotion to move through the 3 realms of body,mind and spirit and hopefully to a right end. Don&#39;t get caught in the technology that&#39;s designed to vaporize your Spirit and what makes you you, &quot;The humanity of Human interaction.&quot; Think before you act, then go see the person, look them in the eyes, touch them if you can and see how you really feel... &lt;/p&gt; ]]&gt;</content:encoded>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded>&lt;![CDATA[ &lt;p&gt;Most people are participating in their own unhappiness. Think about it. You still have phone numbers of people who never call or don&#39;t call enough to matter, and when you go through your contacts and realize they haven&#39;t called, that they never call, you feel a way, but you&#39;re participating in your pain &#39;cause you kept the numbers. Think about it. you got all these bills, all this debt &#39;cause somebody said this is what counts, buy this, this is what the important people wear,drive,do, so you wear,drive, do it at any cost. Or you just can&#39;t break up with &quot;Get More&quot; a doomed relationship from the start. When the Bills come, you feel a way, but you&#39;re participating in your pain &#39;cause you still keep wearing, driving, doin&#39;, and lovin&#39; Get More . When people speed pass me on the highway, crazy sometimes, cutting me off sometimes, i feel an urge to drive fast too, even if I&#39;m in no hurry, I&#39;ll show them. Then i tell myself &quot;I&#39;m not participating&quot; let them go &#39;head. It keeps me from being pulled off course into someone else&#39;s flow, out of myself, off my square, stressed and unhappy. Don&#39;t participate in your own unhappiness, let go of whatever&#39;s not working, tell somebody &quot;Go &#39;head&quot; today. Take care of yourself, keep your Flow, life is not suppose to hurt and when it does, makes sure you&#39;re not participating in creating the pain. We can change this world and change ourselves if we just stop participating in what makes us unhappy... &lt;/p&gt; ]]&gt;</content:encoded>
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<title>About Trust...</title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded>&lt;![CDATA[ &lt;p&gt;Finally decided to relax and let somebody else drive. They a good driver once I gave them the chance. Wow. I&#39;m chillin&#39; on the passenger side watchin&#39; the trees and sights, even dozed off a couple times, they drive so smooth , I don&#39;t feel the bumps as much. I learn to trust them with my life, forgot how relaxing it was riding on the passenger side, think I&#39;ll stay here.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Go head GOD drive...&lt;/p&gt; ]]&gt;</content:encoded>
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<title>What I Know So Far...</title>
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<pubDate>Sun, 9 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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